Marriage is an extremely important step in every person‘s life and we need to think about it very carefully before making one of the biggest steps in our lives.
But when is the time to get married and how much do we have to wait before we do it? Well, I am not an expert, but I will give you some basic tips that you can use in your relationship and which, hopefully, will make your life a bit easier.
Before you even think of marriage, you have to meet someone and live with him for at least 6 months to see his good and bad sides and get to know him really well. You should definitely know a bit of the person before you marry him or else at some point of time you will be very disappointed.
Living with someone will show how the live their live, take care of their chores and more or less how they‘re raised (sometimes the different background of people can be the reason to split up) so you will easily see of that person has a place in your life and vice verse.
To marry someone means to spend the rest of your lives together. And how can you spend your life with someone if they don‘t have the same plans for the future like you? An important condition to marry someone is to share the same plans and dreams for the future and, of course, work together for them. Are you one of those people who want a big house, with kids running around and a dog that will grow old with you? The, of course, search you someone like you! Your future is in your
hands and you don‘t have to compromise because of someone else!
There are many other things you go through together before you get married – you need to make it through some big scandals, meet the two families (yes, most of the times the families can be a huge problem!) and live together for several years until you are completely sure that you soul mates and your destiny is to be together.
The most important thing is to think about doing something stupid and make sure you know the person that‘s sitting next to you well enough to trust him with your life. If you think you can‘t do this with your present boyfriend, maybe he‘s not the one for you.